Stop and Smell the Flowers!

By Maura Wallace
Change a Heart

These past few weeks of October have been full of much growth and fruitful learning! During our Operation Safety Net outreach rounds last week, I ran a warm meal and a pair of socks to a gentleman selling flowers on a busy corner on the North Side of Pittsburgh. He graciously smiled and reached to hand myself and my fellow Mercy Corps volunteer, Caitlin, flowers. We both refused, and told the man to keep these flowers for his customers and to earn money. Without hesitation, he replied, “This is how ladies should be treated! Please, enjoy these flowers.” Needless to say, my day was made instantly! I was left speechless and my heart was filled with so much gratitude. This gentleman was homeless and struggled on a daily basis, and yet he did not think twice to give of himself. I reflect on how I am often afraid to experience the discomfort that comes with extending myself. Often times it is fear that paralyzes my actions towards others. “What if I say the wrong thing” or “What if they do not accept me?” These are all common anxieties, but I have come to realize the gift of presence. By simply being present, I validate the humanity of my brothers and sisters and acknowledge their dignity as human beings. My service year is teaching me to let go of my self-doubt and fears, and to stop and smell the flowers, literally!